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Am I on the train to success, or left behind?

The train of life

We all ask it at different times What is the difference between failing and success - be it wealth, relationships, or even health?

Any approach or response will bring you results. The important thing to consider is noticing the activity (or inactivity), and the result or results this does bring us.

Something like 'The Law of Attraction' in the real world, with real people.

Many people find comfort in their place in life in no matter how damaging it is, and just to be clear, to find a level of contentment or appreciation in things as they are in the moment, is the true mark of success.

The dividing lines are where damage is pending, or happening in real terms. Something like sitting on the railroad tracks having a picnic - will a train come or not?
Do not do this - it is a metaphor or mind picture story to help you recognize that actions/in-actions may not have the ideal effect or result you wanted in your life.

A list follows of some of the actions - repeating, and one offs, that are choices of the let's call them 'failures' of the world, or losers in the game of reality.

Read through them, noticing the ones you are going to work on in your life to markedly improve it.

Losers fail once and quit, use it as a war story and remain stuck, unable to eventually succeed.

Losers look for success at the finish line, rather than along the way.

Losers work to make money, which is good - yet to make a difference somehow as well is the ideal.

Losers seek, and demand respect. Think of the errant judge, or the loudmouth you know.
Winners earn respect, which is a value orientated determination.

Losers stare at the problem, like seeing all the puddles in the way, and then falling in one. Winners look around for the solution, that gives value to others as well.

Losers review options, sometimes for years. Winners act on decisions.

Losers attempt to conquer the world in one shot. Winners add up all their small victories.

Losers expect certain outcomes. Winners prepare themselves as well for the unexpected.

Losers are paid for their time, which is good, yet Winners are paid for their results.

Losers buy things. (The popular Robert Kiyosaki books are a good help here). Winners build things.

Losers see things they don’t understand and rubbish them. Winners see things they don’t understand and get curious.

Losers talk, gossip, abuse, and question to reduce another's value. Winners communicate, and share what is important.

Losers let things happen. Winners make things happen, they actually make some moves to the goal posts.

Losers want to get ahead of others, being insecure or weak within. Winners help others get ahead too.

Losers hangout with losers. Winners limit their time with the worst of the losers, knowing they would prefer not to catch their flu.

Losers label themselves as experts. Be careful of the noise, sometimes the loudest most flashy car for example, does not win the race. Winners know there is still much to learn.

Losers over-sell not by enthusiasm, but by deceptive intent, they do manipulate. Winners over-deliver and negotiate agreeably.

Losers frown, roll their eyes, smirk and other controlling facial tics. Winners smile from within.

Losers think winners are lotto lucky. Winners realize the way they work brings opportunity to them.

Losers follow other people’s fashions and definitions of success. Winners define their own success.

Losers escape fears in the range of chemicals on offer. Winners face fears in realistic ways.

Losers waste their free time (watching TV). Winners use their free time (learning or experiencing something new). You can learn from TV, do be definite about what you want to learn, then if is safe go and try it out in the real world.

Losers see the unknown as a risk. Winners see constant familiarity as a risk. Think a pleasant bubbling stream or brook has better fish, water, and plants in it - than a many year stagnant pond.

Losers live in the past.

Winners live life now based on lessons learned in the past, selling to the aforementioned losers.

Don't get too despondent - Some of the losers of the world have ingratiated themselves to seem successful.
No one really teaches these ideas to their children, and most administration or government employees or agents are in fact failure orientated.

Your mission is to go back and be aware of these points, being careful of the parasites and sharks;- and one by one, a week at a time change them to be the positive assets that will bring you long term success.

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