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Choosing your self belief or image of yourself

What is the difference between success and failure? - Especially when you see so many seemingly horrible or selfish people with wealth.

Mostly, it is a focus on the importance of that idea,or desire, and an unconscious self belief that they are 'entitled' to have.

Now this is a good attribute you must have,- one would draw the line at the 'narcissists' of the world, and of course those that damage others to get results for their ego.

To find a level of contentment or appreciation in things as they are in the moment, is indeed the true mark of success.

Now generally any approach or response will bring you results. Something like 'The Law of Attraction' in the real world, with real people.

The important thing to consider is noticing the activity (or inactivity), and the result or results this does bring us.

A list follows of some of the actions - habits, and one offs, that are choices of the let's call them the 'winners' in the game of reality.

Read through them, noticing the ones you are going to work on in your life to markedly improve it.

To eventually succeed, a continually adaptable plan is acted on.

Look for success along the way. Increments are as important as at the finish line.

To make a difference somehow in some form attracts more benefits to you and everyone else.

Winners create belief systems that others follow, rather than being subservient to another's plan for their life.

Winners earn respect, which is a value orientated determination, from themselves and secondly others.

Instead of seeing all the puddles in the way, and then falling into one. Winners look around for the solution, that gives value to others as well.

To review options, is good, yet action is rewarded. Winners act on decisions.

Winners add up all their small victories, to a continuum of a total picture.

To expect certain outcomes, and be prepared to deal with the unexpected.

Winners are paid for their results, as well as being paid for their time.

Winners build things. Losers buy fashionable items. (The popular Robert Kiyosaki books are a good help here).

Winners see things they don’t understand and get curious.

Winners communicate, and share what is important.

Winners make things happen, they actually make some moves to the goal posts.

Winners help others get ahead too. Losers want to get ahead of others, being insecure or weak within.

Winners limit their time with the worst of the losers, knowing they would prefer not to catch their flu.

Losers label themselves as experts. Be careful of the noise, sometimes the loudest most flashy car for example, does not win the race. Winners know there is still much to learn in the real world.

Winners over-deliver and negotiate agreeably. Losers over-sell not by enthusiasm, but by deceptive intent, they do manipulate.

Winners smile from within. Losers frown, roll their eyes, smirk and other controlling facial tics.

Winners realize the way they work brings opportunity to them. The way of the Wyrd. Losers think winners are lotto lucky.

Winners define their own success, creating fashions and others definitions of success.

Winners face fears in realistic ways. Losers escape fears in the range of chemicals on offer.

Winners use their free time (learning or experiencing something new). Losers waste their free time (watching TV). You can learn from TV, do be definite about what you want to learn, then if is safe go and try it out in the real world.

Winners see constant familiarity as a risk. Think a pleasant bubbling stream or brook has better fish, water, and plants in it - than a many year stagnant pond Losers see the unknown as a risk. .

Winners live life now based on lessons learned in the past, selling to the aforementioned losers.

Your mission is to go back and be aware of these points, being careful of the parasites and sharks;- and one by one, a week at a time change them to be the positive assets that will bring you long term success.

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