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Signs of Good Relationship Advice
You need help with your relationship – but what if you get bad relationship advice?
These 10 signs of good
relationship advice will help you know if you’re getting help that will actually improve or save your relationship.
How to Recognize Good Relationship Advice
1. Your family is giving you relationship advice for their own reasons
You must be very specific, in asking why;- several times in fact.
Adult children, have there own exploration in life to undertake, and are mostly not to be listened to, after the first meeting of your partner.
2. Your friends are jealous of your relationship
Friends, are usually a great help with first assessments, past that time or those few minutes, they are either afraid of losing you, jealous of what you have and they can not, or deceptive in their intent.
Especially if they are damaged children, or the like.
Numbers 1 and 2 and closely enmeshed, do pay attention to your own life path as well.
3. The advice giver is objective – a sign of good relationship advice
Listen for subjective statements - name calling - the adviser has their own unresolved immaturity to get through - their advice will NOT help you.
4. Your inner feelings are telling you this is good or bad relationship advice
Whether it is right or wrong, it is right or wrong for you just now.
5. You know yourself – a super way to recognize good versus bad relationship advice
As in number 4, take some time out in solitude, meditate if necessary.
6. The advice giver has the full picture of your relationship – the good, the bad, and the ugly
No matter if you are some at fault, an answer given with half the information gives poor results.
7. The advice giver has given you good relationship advice in the past
Did you listen the first time? Possibly this adviser has skills you can learn from.
8. The advice giver has healthy, good relationships
They are able to prove what they say works - if they cannot - keep your distance.
9. The relationship advice is from a good resource
Hard to say what is good, yet if it fits all the other characteristics here it probably is.
10. The relationship advice is honest and unbiased
They take into account both sides, without pity, or judgement.
Who is paying them?, and what rewards do they hope to get from this interaction?
Questions you must ask to avoid bad advice, predators, lawyers, corrupt and greedy people, and cults.
If it is government or lottery funded, their task is to add you to their numbers, and the quality of the help may be either good or bad - do treat it as an emergency 'band-aid' to use and move on without, as quickly as you can.
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